Elaina & Kayce.
Ages 4 & 1 · Loud, loving, and absolutely unstoppable.
"They are not letting anything stop them."
Their mama Sarah described them in six words: loud and rambunctious, playful and loving, care-free. And from the moment we arrived at the park, every single one of those words showed up exactly as promised.
Elaina came ready. At four years old she has this beautiful, fearless energy — the kind that doesn't wait to be invited in. She knew what she wanted to do and she went straight for it. Every slide, every climbing structure, every corner of that playground got her full attention and full effort. She wanted me right there with her for all of it — down every slide, across every section — and I was happy to keep up as best I could. There is something about a child who plays with her whole entire body and soul that just makes you want to set your camera down for a second and just watch.
It is love bug season in Louisiana, and if you know, you know — every surface of that playground was covered. Elaina was unimpressed with that particular detail and made her feelings known, which made me love her even more. She had places to be and love bugs were not part of the plan.
I brought an airplane along for some extra fun, and watching her play with it was one of my favorite moments of the whole session. She got quiet with it — focused, soft, completely in her own world. It was a different side of the same girl. The one her mama knows — the one who gets overly excited about the little things, who has a deep belly laugh that shakes her whole body when something is truly funny, who wakes her parents up early every single morning just to give them hugs before they're even fully awake.
We had a couple of small bumps along the way — you play hard, sometimes you fall — and my magic healing hand trick got called into service more than once. She'd look up at me, I'd do my thing, and just like that she was back on her feet. Every single time. That is Elaina in one small moment: she feels it, she moves through it, and then she goes again.
And then there was Kayce.
One year old, stayed close to mama, and ran his own entirely different kind of session from right there on the ground. He discovered the playground mulch and gave it a very serious, very thorough investigation — tasting included. He watched every kid on that playground with wide, curious eyes, pointing them out to me one by one like he wanted to make sure I was seeing what he was seeing. He was content. He was warm. He was exactly where he wanted to be, doing exactly what he wanted to do.
Where Elaina is all motion and momentum, Kayce is observation and softness. He is a mama's boy through and through — the kind who climbs into her lap and lays his head on her chest like that is the safest place on earth. And it is. He carries his favorite blanket with the lion and giraffe print everywhere he goes. He uses his very loud voice to let you know when he is happy about something. He is one year old and he is already so completely, specifically himself.
Sarah told me she wanted this session mainly for Elaina — because as the only girl, some days she feels more alone than other kids do. She doesn't fully understand the age gap between her and her brothers yet. Sarah wanted her to have something that felt like hers. A day that said: you are seen, you are celebrated, you are worth stopping time for.
What Sarah also carried into this session — quietly, without making it the centerpiece — is the knowledge of everything these two little people have already been through. Elaina has brain damage. Connecting with new people can be genuinely hard for her sometimes. Kayce had surgery on both of his eyes. Before that, he couldn't see well enough in his own body. He barely moved. He held back. He waited.
And then I watched Elaina open up to me like I was someone she had known her whole life — running toward me, pulling me along, playing without a single wall between us. Sarah told me afterward that that is extremely hard for her to do. That she doesn't just do that. I didn't know that in the moment. I just knew she felt like sunshine.
And Kayce — who once stayed still because the world wasn't clear enough to explore — sat in the middle of a playground and pointed at everything. Curious. Present. Taking it all in with eyes that now work the way they're supposed to. Sarah said it has been a life-changing moment every single day since his surgery. I believe her. You could see it in him.
What Sarah wants them to know someday
"Both have overcome obstacles that kids their age shouldn't have to. They've both done such an amazing job — you'd never guess they've both had medical issues in the past. They are not letting anything stop them."
These images are proof of exactly that. Proof that Elaina ran that playground with everything she had and felt safe enough to let a stranger in. Proof that Kayce saw the world around him and reached toward it. Proof that their mama — who is memorizing every bit of this season, who is watching them become new people every single day — was right there for all of it. This is them. Loud and rambunctious, playful and loving, completely care-free. And they are so, so worth witnessing.
Now Booking · Wild Ones
Introducing: “The Park”.
Sessions like Elaina and Kayce's are exactly why I created this offering. “The Park” is a Wild Ones session lived out in the wild of a real playground — the swings, the slides, the mulch, the sunshine, the love bugs, all of it. No poses. No direction. Just your child completely free, doing exactly what they do, while I follow them and bear witness.
This is childhood. Unscripted, unstoppable, and completely worth preserving.
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